Is the question that I had to ask myself upon moving to a new city.  I found myself hesitating, holding back and generally wishing that I had a network of people to call on.  As I was contemplating and hemming and hawing about picking up the phone to call some very important contact,  I reminded myself of what my 9 year old Girl Scout cookie selling self would do.  I’d just pick up the phone and tell this very important person that I AM HERE!  “How else will they find out?”.  So my advice when feeling shy and a little hesitant.  Ask yourself. What would you do if you were not afraid?  If you just let the real you show through?  What would you do if you were your best you?